PonyTales

There has been quite some changes in my life after I got married. Enough changes to justify that they need to appear in my personal journal

Single - Usually after work I arrive home to a nice home cook dinner by mom.
Married - “What do you wanna eat tonite honey? Mixed rice again ar?”

Single - My clothes are all ready for me when I need them, ironed and folded neatly by my mom. Thanks Mom! I miss you more now…sob….sob…
Married - There are always clothes for me to wash, fold and iron. The backlog will never clear. (Mom warned about this once when I told her I want to get married..keke)

Single - I rarely make my bed (single size only)…excuse…always rushing to work early in the morning
Married - I must know how to make a queen bed + fold the quilt + teach hubby how to make bed + wash and dry bed sheets and all

Single - When I am very sad at times, I will cry in front of all my soft toys (most of it given by hubby, then BF la)
Married - When I am very sad, I cry on hubby shoulder on my queen size bed with air-cond on to cool me down

Single - I did not keep my things properly and when I get home from work. All is back to their places, miracle! (Mom! u r my miracle)
Married - I go around the house picking up newspaper, rubbish and try make sure all dishes is washed before I go to sleep.

Single - I get nagged by mom for sitting at the sofa, watching tv and doing nothing.
Married - I am the one nagging hubby and SIL. Since when I am so like my Mom..Help!!

Single - Positive cashflow during CNY
Married - Negative cashflow during CNY

Single - I help to clean the house only during special occasion and when my mom scold.
Married - I must remember to clean house every weekend, when I last cleaned it and nag everyone in the house about keeping the house clean, even the lizard get scolding from me cause poo poo everywhere.

Single - I have nothing much to do after getting home from work. I will be delighted if friends called and got reason to go out
Married - There are always things to do at home. When friends called to go out…ler…kacau! I want to wash clothes la…

Single - I did not even know when my rubbish bin is emptied and cleaned.
Married - I make sure that I used the correct plastic bag for different rubbish bin and collect all the rubbish together when I cleaned the house, and implement an effective trash management system.

Single - I think about getting married.
Married - I think about having children.

Single - When I spend too much early in the month and have not enough to last until end of the month. I get very worried and embarrased to ask from parents, the money I gave them early in the month.
Married - When I spend too much or did not worked for 3 months, my hubby gave me money to pay my loans and go shopping

Single - I miss my hubby (then BF) when I don’t see him
Married -  I miss my mummy and papa

Single - I usually plan my holiday from the first day until the last day I am not working.
Married - I allocate at least one or half a day to do all the clean up after a holiday. And I try to make sure I clean the house before holiday.

Single - I dare not watch any horror movie at night cause when I go to sleep later, my imagination will run wild….scary…arrrrr
Married - I can watch horror movie at night…no problem, hubby is there…hee hee

Overall, I am still happier and fulfilled being married, at least I know I am more grown up now